Honey, Will You Wear This for Halloween? He Says/She Says
After going round and round with Lil’ J about what she wanted to be for Halloween, we finally settled on Tinkerbell. We’ve been working to get a family costume coordinated.
Lil’ J already failed to convince her daddy to be Peter Pan so she settled for Captain Hook.
I sent my husband a text message with the costume I found, and it went something like this:
She says: Hey babe, I just ordered your Halloween costume!
He says: Oh hell no…
She says: Come on!! We are all going as Peter Pan characters and the kids will think you’re SO cool!
He says: They already do.
He is a cool dad, but this would give him major bonus points–at least with me. I showed a picture of the costume to Lil’ J, and told her she should ask daddy if he’ll wear it. She looked at the photo on my phone, gave it back to me and said, “Um, I don’t want him to get mad at me.” Poor thing probably had flashbacks of when she asked him to be Peter Pan.
A couple days later, I heard my husband announcing he had a secret to tell our daughter that she couldn’t tell me. They huddled and whispered over homework. They do this every now and then so I didn’t think anything of it and forgot how hard it was for my daughter to keep a secret… Until the next afternoon when she told me “Daddy says if I practice my numbers every day he’ll be Captain Hook for Halloween!”
My heart leapt. Oh, we could do that. Of course I hadn’t actually ordered the costume, but now I basically had his blessing. (Between you and me, I just ordered one even more elaborate).
Will he actually wear it? It’ll come down to Halloween night, we’ll see. It’ll be the first of a few battles that night, I’m sure. Others will be convincing our little Peter Pan to stay with us and not run away. Making sure our Tinker Bell doesn’t eat any candy before we inspect it (though she’s generally good about this). And arguing with Captain Hook about which houses are indeed passing out candy.
The general rule of thumb is if the porch lights are on, it’s game. But my husband likes to also see a certain amount of Halloween decorations out front before approaching. Just how many tricks it takes to meet his quota, I’m not sure. But we wind up skipping a lot.
According to Allstate, I’m right that the porch light is a good indicator, while dark houses are probably not participating.
Here are 5 more tips from Allstate to keep us all safe this Halloween:
- Take a working flashlight and/or glow sticks to make sure you and your kids are visible from afar. You can also add reflective tape to costumes and bags to increase visibility.
- Be sure to walk only on sidewalks, and to take extra caution when crossing streets. Never dart out from behind parked vehicles.
- Stick to familiar homes and neighborhoods or pre-plan where you will trick-or-treat.
- Shoes should fit well and costumes should be short enough so that your trick-or-treater won’t trip over their costume. If you buy or make a costume, use materials that are flame-resistant
- Homeowners: Keep pets, even if they’re friendly, indoors. They might frighten children or accidentally get loose.
And one I should have thought of last year when my little sister came along and decided to ditch us for her friends: Choose a meeting place just in case your children get separated from the group.
You can read-up on more Halloween safety tips here before this weekend.
I’ll let you know Saturday if he wears the costume. You’d better believe there will be LOTS of
proof wonderful family pictures documenting the sweet occasion.
Are you dressing up for Halloween? What is your family going as?
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You guys look so cute! I love those costumes. These are great tips for trick or treating. We go with another family, so that makes me feel better too.
Bahahaha!!! He IS my husband’s twin. We’re being the Incredibles… Just yesterday he asked, “so what pants EXACTLY do you have me wearing?”
Leggings honey, leggings.
Just kidding. He’d kill me!
Every year I say we are all going as a group themed costume, but we never do. I always have great ideas but never follow through. Love your Flintstones family look! My daughter is going as Luigi and my son wants to be Hawkeye.
My kids are too old for trick or treating. When they were younger though, we never did family costumes. The thought never crossed my mind. I hope you can convince your husband to wear the Captain Hook outfit.
Yall are adorable! We aren’t dressing up, but it’s my sons birthday so we are throwing a party.
Your family is just too cute! I can’t wait to see your Peter Pan costumes! My kids are begging me to dress up this year- I might have to oblige after seeing how cute you and your hubby are all dressed up!
You all look great! My husband always wants to dress up as something scary lol. This year we are all going as something different. The boys want to be zombies, my oldest girl wants to be a witch and my little one wants to be a kitten. 🙂
My 2-1/2 year old has been giving me trouble all month about his costume. He was excited about it when we bought it, but when I tried to try it on him, he refused. And when I finally pushed the issue this week, he initially seemed to like it but decided he didn’t. I tried our backup plan, which was a firefighter raincoat and a plastic fire hat that my costume-averse older child wore at this age, but he didn’t like that any better.
After some naughty behavior and a timeout, he came back with a better attitude and says he will wear his original costume like a big boy. I’m hoping that Friday morning when I put it on him he sticks to his word!
Of course, my seven-year-old has changed his mind about four times and still doesn’t have a costume in hand. Hopefully tonight. Sigh.
so cute. I admire your family