Craigslist Psycho

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Earlier this year we bought a new high definition TV. I get free cable and free HDTV and my husband couldn’t stand not having a high definition TV to watch it on. So after months and month of begging and saving we invested in his new favorite toy.

But standing it it’s way was our old TV… Flat screen, HUGE tube in the back. Weighing over 200 pounds for sure. My husband was so eager to get rid of it, he asked me to put it up on Craigslist in the “free” section. I did. Bad idea.

All of three minutes later I got a swarm of calls from people, one after another asking if I “still had the TV” …Well yea, I just listed it. I’d get 3 new voicemails while I was one the phone with one person asking for directions to our house. Text messages as well. Quickly I realized this wasn’t the way to do it. I should have asked for at least $25 or something to weed people out.

One old man I talked to I could hardly understand because his country accent was so thick. He proceeded to tell me how he rem embed his first TV, and the experiences he’s had with his recent TVs. I pulled the phone away from my ear for a moment so my husband could hear part of his life story, and we muffled our laughs about the hilarity of this experience.

I took the listing off and made it a race between two people to come and get it. One guy lived down the street and got there long before the other left his house, so I called to let him know not to worry about it. He was upset… Apparently he wanted this TV for his mom who’s TV broke or something.

I’ve had my fair share of Craigslist experiences. It’s a great tool, when used correctly, but you can get burned too.

Once I was so excited to buy a set of leather couches only to see another couple walking away with them just as I arrived at this guys house… Who I drove an hour to meet and buy the couches from.

Other times I’ve scored big on an item I would have paid 5 times the price for at a retail store.

But never had I had an experience quite like one of my most recent ones… In my search for the perfect nursery dresser.

I was nearly nine months pregnant and eager to put all of Lil’ J’s clothes in them before she arrived. I just knew she was going to be early (joke was on me).

See, we don’t have much room in the nursery, so we didn’t want a changing table. Instead, I’d been looking for a nice-sized-dresser that has a wide top so it can also double as a changing table once I throw a cushion on top. Delta, the company that made the crib I own has a great one!

I started searching and found the perfect dresser. Delta Canton Espresso Dresser. Matched the crib perfectly, was new in box (so I could transport it in my car) and they were only asking $100.

I wrote to the lister and asked about the dresser. He still had it! But he said it was more “cheery” than “espresso” colored.

“That’s ok!!” I wrote back.

He was out of town until Sunday… That’s ok! I’m off Monday, great, we’ll buy it then.

Sunday I write.

No response.

I call. Leave a message.

No response.

I probably should give up at this point because he’s probaby some crazy Craigslist person anyway who was just disappointed after I said I would bring my husband along to pick up the dresser, who knows. But I didn’t stop.

I wrote again, and again. To my credit, I would have stopped but he still had the listing up, and every time I searched for another dresser that one would come up and I’d get SO excited for a split second… Then remember it was the jerk who keeps ignoring me.

Finally I gave it one last shot and wrote him this honest email.

“Hi Tim,

Me again! I noticed you still have the listing up for the dresser and every time I search craigslist it haunts me. I wanted to see if you want to get rid of it and be $100 richer while also making a preggo very very happy to finally have a dresser for her nursery. Please just let me know if it’s gone or whatever one way or another so I can stop torturing myself! Thanks! Jennifer”

No response. But a few days later the listing was deleted.

It was a sad ending… At that point, but I ended up just putting up a “Wanted” listing for what I was looking for and got a GREAT deal on exactly what I wanted!
I got this pretty white dresser that goes perfect in the nursery. But I turned it from that to this.

dresser knobs

In all of ten minutes, by switching out the drawer knobs with fancy snazzy ones from Kids Decor Inc.

dresser knobs

So the moral of the story… I’m a little crazy when it comes to getting what I want. I can kinda be a psycho. But sometimes when that means finding killer deals for my daughter, it’s worth it (a week ago I got a $155 swing for $50 and she LOVES it!).

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124 Comments

  1. I love what you did with the dresser – I just sold one like that myself because it’s too big for the room my daughter and little one will be sharing…

  2. funny you should write about craigslist! there are so many scams on there now and i’m surprised you were able to get what you wanted. here in nyc it’s awful! the dresser looks great though =)

  3. So cute!

    Once when I was selling some stuff on craigslist (a crib, actually) the person that wanted it asked if I had anything else I could throw in there. So, uh, sure – I threw in a nursery lamp and a changing pad. I put everything on our enclosed front porch. They drove up in a HUGE TRUCK and then tried to load all the toys, etc. from the front porch into it!!

  4. That is an adorable dresser. I guess it was worth the wait. My husband and I sell items on craiglist too and it does get pretty crazy. There are some weird people in this world, but I guess that’s what keeps it so interesting huh? LOL. By the way, I like how you transformed her dresser. 🙂

  5. Ive given up on craigslist recently. Have had a hard time competing for what is listed. Score for you though! that is perfect! I too have a baby coming. would love the gift card. hint hint. and working on the nursery!

  6. This time the blog isn’t going to make me go and spend money haha but I LOVE what you did with the dresser! I am also a junkie, but not on craigslist, I use kijiji (not sure if it is in the states too) and my whole nursery is little finds like that! It feels SO good when all the hard searching pays off.. I’m sure you know the feeling! Also hate those people who don’t respond.. just ANSWER and say NO already.. haha

  7. Very Cute. I learned LONG ago not to EVER list in the free section. I had a similar situation with a futon. HAHAH!! Great Giveaway!

    Aly at infertilityoverachievers dot com

  8. I love Craigslist too! Love the knobs! I could definitely use some new ones for my baby girl’s dresser since she is using a hand-me-down from her brother. 🙂

    sully_debbie11 at msn dot com

  9. I got reallly spoiled by NYC craigslist and when I moved to Miami – as usual- I turned to it first for almost everything… which led to me being robbed- so yeah.. craigslist can be scary. Nice dresser though! 🙂

  10. I love those dressers. I’ve always wanted one. It’s grows with your child, so she’ll always be able to use it. Unfortunately, we could never find one that was in good condition or for a reasonable price.

  11. all your craigslist stories sound like typical things that happen. most people are a little nutty so when going the craigslist route i always ALWAYS just email…. i hate a million phone calls and i NEVER give anything away, because well people get crazy over stuff when you say free

  12. I’ve had creepy experiences trying to sell things on craigslist! I think just the whole idea of people being able to call you up and ask you for your address is asking for creeps…lol.

  13. I got the stroller I wanted (which was discontinued the moment I finally decided it was the one I wanted) but found it for a fraction of the price on Craigslist. It definitely has it’s advantages!

  14. I so agree Craigslist can be an awesome resource, we’ve scored big on Craigslist many times but you do have to be cautious. That dresser looks amazing with just the change of the knobs!

    dropcqueen at yahoo dot com

  15. LOL, we had the same thing happen when we put both our Iphones, and then our Mac Computer on there. The mac we sold the next day (they had to work) and the iphones I sold within the hour. People were actually mad when I told them both were gone. (yes, i went in and deleted the posts)

  16. That was mean of him to taunt you like that by leaving the posting up. Clearly he sold the dresser to someone else and should have had the decency to tell you instead of letting you keep calling and leaving him messages. But I’ve had great luck with Craigslist as well. It’s certainly a wonderful tool for finding great merchandise.

  17. Good to know not to offer free stuff. I’ve never sold anything on Craigslist before but my husband and I are looking to get rid of our old bed and TV.

  18. I looove your dresser! Totally cute. 🙂 And your Craigslist story is so funny – oh, so YOU are the psycho I keep hearing about on Craigslist? I’ve heard a lot of stories… I’m too scared to shop on there. lol

    (I would be annoyed if someone didn’t write me back, too)

  19. Love what you did with the dresser…..what a great idea and now you don’t have to worry anymore and loved the letter you wrote that man

    sibabe64 at ptd dot net

  20. I have had a similar experience. It can be quite frustrating or quite rewarding. I’m glad you found a dresser that fits your needs/wants. It’s really cute. I loooove the knobs!

  21. I’ve made the same exact mistake by listing a television for free. Doesn’t beat my dad’s friend who bought clothes from a lady and had to have his energy read before he was allowed to leave with them. Makes me laugh every time I hear the story.

    katrinasevin(at)gmail.com

  22. I have had my share of craigslist weirdo’s as well…another good place for stuff is freecycle. Sometimes people list just straight junk, but other times I’ve gotten new clothes (with the tags) for my “fashionista 9 yr old” and a great booster seat (sealed in the box with tags!) for my 3 yr old!

  23. I am excited about this blog. Craigslist does seem to yield good deals for people! I wish I could find a steal but I just find duds or already gone things!

  24. What you did with the dresser was wonderful. This is a great contest. I looked at their websight and they have valances that would be perfect for my tiwns room.
    ortizvelasquez at yahoo dot com

  25. I was giving something away for free on craigslist, one person actually offered money for it – that was the person I gave it to. Obviously I would rather get some cash than give it away! 🙂

    ecoblogz at gmail dot com

  26. I love what u did with this dresser. I did something similiar. I found a really old dresser at a garage sale but I knew all it needed was a little TLC. I painted it white and gave it some purple knobs, Now it looks great in my baby’s nursery.

  27. Wow! The dresser is adorable and of course, every girl should get what she wants!
    Glad I got a chance to read this! Now I want To go on craigslist and search for stuff. ^_^

  28. I love how you added your personal touches to a basic piece. I also love that you aren’t afraid to stalk out the deals and not pay retail. 🙂
    kirbycolby at gmail dot com

  29. glad that you did find something. we had a similar experience when we were car buying but it ended up being in our favor that they didn’t respond.
    annemolino at hotmail dot com

  30. lol, i loved this post — i gave away our love seat when we bought our house and put it up for free and the people who came to get it were kinda crazy, so now i won’t give my address out ( i only did then b/c i knew we were moving) and just meet them in a public place and if i buy something i make sure my hubby is with me!

    autumn398 @ yahoo.com

  31. Please consider me entered to win this giveaway! I love your new nursery dresser. I’m preggo at the moment, too…and now I’m off to craigslist to hunt around (this post has inspired me). 🙂 Thanks for the contest! codisweepstakes2 (@) gmail(dot)com

  32. Cute dresser. We haven’t had a lot of luck buying anything on Craigslist, however I did sell my daughter’s Cupcake Barbie Bike on craigslist. I think you just have to be very careful! Thanks, krocarek at gmail dot com

  33. Haha! I’ve never done anything on Craigslist, but I’ve had a few bad experiences with FreeCycle. You just never know who you’re going to meet, do you? And it seems like the recession is making it even worse!

  34. I love Craigslist. I got my beloved little Chihuahua off of there. When the former owner met me, she gave him to me. The dresser is really cute.

    hafner611{AT}gmail{DOT}com

  35. Lol on the tv listing. I can’t imagine how fun that was. I’ve never listed anything on there. I’m always scared of someone knowing where I live. I guess I need to get over it so I can get rid of some stuff. Thanks for the giveaway!

  36. The dresser is so cute! My mother in law just gave my daughters two of her old dressers. I am planning to paint and add new drawer knobs to them. I hope they turn out as good as yours!

  37. I have bought, sold, and gave away items on Craigslist with pretty good luck. I have been able to save dump fees on old appliances by listing them for free. It’s a great resource!
    smchester at gmail dot com

  38. I do alot of different creative stuff for daughters playroom. As we took different blankets such as dora and spongebob and nail them to the floor and she loves it. and i love what u did to the dresser.

    talishasturms@yahoo dot com

  39. I’ve only sold one thing on Craigslist, but it was a great experience. I’ll have to give it another chance! Glad you got your dresser! Thanks so much! pamelashockley(AT)aol(DOT)com

  40. My husband is about to go looking for a used car (his tranny died) and he’s going to go to Craigslist first. I would be scared to death to do it, but he’s not worried in the slightest. I have my fingers and toes crossed.

    Glad you got your changing table. It looks great w/the new knobs.

  41. my mom used to love getting deals she was always yard sale hunting and would talk them down to bottom dollar..i wish i was like her..you also sound like a really smart shopper..good for you 🙂

  42. Oh and you can delete this after you read it, but We got a leather recliner for $25 on craigslist. The arms of the chair were cracked, but it makes a great chair in our playroom!

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