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A table covered in magazines at a vision board party with two women at the table

Start Your 30’s The Right Way: How to Host a Vision Board Party

Dec 22 2019

Police wife married to a white cop with a biracial black son

Your fear is killing my family: Why are you supporting my white cop and not my black son?

Jul 08 2016

Finding homeschool co-op friends.

Finding My Homeschool Tribe

Jun 25 2016

Some tips for straightening curly hair for the first time

What I Learned After Straightening My Daughter’s Curly Hair

Jun 17 2016

How Daddy Time is Strengthening More Than Just Their Bond

Jun 08 2016

Deciding home school

Why I’ve Decided to Homeschool

Jun 06 2016

I got my ancestry DNA testing reviews results and they weren't what I expected.

I Got My Ancestry DNA Results and They Weren’t What I Expected

Jun 01 2016

The Main Reason I’m Focusing on Me This Summer and Not My Kids

May 24 2016

Olly Might Vitamins for Kids

Choosing to Serve as a Family

May 19 2016

All I Want for Mother’s Day is… (My Weirdest Request Yet)

May 04 2016

Biracial siblings Spring Texas Bluebonnet pictures

Texas Bluebonnet Pictures and Other Reasons I Love Spring

Apr 13 2016

Some great ideas on things the kids and grandparents can do together! Create lasting memories.

Granny’s Secret to Lasting Memories

Mar 29 2016

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I was at work in the newsroom years ago writing a

I was at work in the newsroom years ago writing a story for the evening show when I overheard a speaker phone call conversation where one coworker told another about “some n*ggers” that were upsetting him. I blinked and did a double take at the reporter on the other end of the line, who looked at me with shock and apology in his eyes. So I didn’t mishear. That was really said.

In the days and weeks after that I was called in for some questioning, apologies were had, but the man was not let go. And a direct apology from the source was never made to me.

At that time I didn’t want to stir the pot. As the only black woman on air, and one of the very few people of color in the newsroom I didn’t want to ruffle feathers. Looking back, I should have stood up for myself and the people we served in the community. I should not have let it go. Because really, did we want someone like that working in our newsroom, influencing decisions?

This isn’t a battle against police, it’s a battle against racism. Today I know for a fact I’d do better. I think a lot of us would.

When we look at how far we have to go to move beyond stereotypes and racism the road seems impossibly long. But when I look at far we’ve come… I’m inspired.

I’m inspired by the fresh activism.
I’m inspired by the sincere questions.
I’m inspired by the sold out books on anti-racism
I’m inspired by the outpouring of love.

There’s still work to do. It’s a long road ahead. But the trip is better when you’ve got a good travel buddy. Don’t let up, let’s step on the gas. // #blackvoicesheard #loveoverhate #amplifymelanatedvoices #shareblackstories #blacklivesmatter

When this social media trend is over and the dark

When this social media trend is over and the dark squares have all left the algorithm in your timeline, I will still be Black. So where do we go from here?

I am so incredibly touched by all of the conversations we’ve been having. So many of you have messaged me saying you didn’t understand Black Lives Matter until now. And I appreciate you listening. And trying to understand.

Part of me is looking around and thinking “WOW! People are starting to get it.” But I still see a gap.
Some of us are seeing police brutality as a “them” problem and not an “us” issue. Who are we interacting with at church, neighborhood gatherings and events? Where are we letting things slide that could snowball later?

I hope that going forward we will take these conversations from our homes with our children to our extended family, friends and neighbors. To those who may not be active on social media or know the meaning of Blackout Tuesday.

I hope those of you in a position of leadership will look at the events and gatherings you organize or participate in; the interviews and features you curate and see if there are voices being left out. Oh how much richer our spaces would be with more diverse voices. Go the extra mile to include more diversity.

We should all be holding ourselves, friends and coworkers accountable. Speaking up when we notice someone being mistreated, or when we see a lack of diversity in our spaces. Support Black businesses and creators. And research causes your values align with that could could contribute to. Whether through time or donations.

Remember today. Where you stand, and the promises you’re making by standing with us. Thank you for talking the talk. 🖤 Now let’s walk the walk.
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// #blackvoicesheard #blacklivesmatter #mymagicmatters #amplifymelanatedvoices

I’m sure many of you are getting messages right

I’m sure many of you are getting messages right now encouraging you to speak up. Especially my fellow influencer friends. This may be catching you off guard.

I know it can be hard to find the words to say, or to feel like your words don’t have an impact. But I’d argue that people are looking to YOU for a reason.

You have a unique voice and can shine your light into dark places others can’t reach.

There’s no need to force yourself to sound any way that’s not how you truly feel. Be sincere. If you can’t form the words, look to others who have shared in ways you would but have said it better than you could.

First listen. Check out #MyMagicMatters for stories from people like me. If you’re struggling to find understanding I encourage you to put yourselves in their shoes, channel your empathy.

Then, most importantly remember, social media is just one tiny piece of this puzzle. Bring these uncomfortable discussions in your homes and into your communities. Donate to causes you agree with. I truly believe we can all make a difference together.
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// #disneylookslikeme #blackvoicesheard

It’s nearly 3am and I’m up, texting my husband

It’s nearly 3am and I’m up, texting my husband every hour or so to make sure he’s ok. My oldest asked a half dozen times why he needed to work tonight.

We’ve been having tough conversations with our kids from a really young age. Conversations about skin color, discrimination and how families come in all forms. I’ll be honest, it doesn’t necessarily get easier, but it’s important.

I strive to be consistent. Racism, hatred, inclusivity and unity are moral topics I discuss from our perspective here ALL the time. Not just when it’s at the top of everyone’s news feed. These are conversations we have in our home having ALL the time.

I know it’s hard trying to form words to such a heavy topic. It’s even more challenging when everyone seems to be expecting you to say something. I want to remind you that more important than a grandiose social media statement are these discussions with our family and friends. Conversations with our children and our spouses. Preparing ourselves for things that happen away from our computer screens. To stand up for our friends, neighbors, even strangers when they’re being mistreated. And listening to those who are in pain. Not just with the horrible instances we hear about on the news. But the “smaller” mistreatments we witness at school, work and in our circles.

I appreciate those of you who are listening and trying to understand right now. I’ve written a couple blog posts about a couple of misconceptions I’m hearing.

1. Being “colorblind”. You aren’t colorblind and that’s ok. Instead of saying “I don’t see color” try noticing our color and appreciating our differences.

2. “All lives matter” though coming from a place of love, is missing an important point. My husband is a police officer, our son is black. Who do you think society places more value on?

I believe we all have room to better ourselves. That could mean learning more about causes we don’t understand. Or listening to someone who has another point of view.

Please visit the link in my bio to read those two posts and to gain some more understanding on those things. Or the “thoughts” bubble in my highlights.
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// #blacklivesmatter #leowife #interracialfamily

It’s always the Lee Lee show at our house. She g

It’s always the Lee Lee show at our house. She gets what she wants when she wants, and that includes control of the TV (and wearing what she wants 😍). I’d say Sesame Street is queued up about 90% of the time when the TV is on and now Elmo has a NEW show we can all enjoy! #AD

It’s The Not-Too-Late Show with Elmo streaming only on HBOMax! Elmo is the host of his very own talk show with special celebrity guests. We are all excited to check it out with Lee Lee and I won’t be surprised if it’s still playing even when Lee Lee isn’t in the room.

Follow HBOMaxFamily and stream favorites everyone can enjoy anytime, anywhere. Who has control of the TV at your house?

#nottoolateshow

Are your summer plans looking different this year?

Are your summer plans looking different this year? Are you taking any photos of these strange times?

Starting June 1st, join LashawnWiltz and I on Instagram for a photo challenge to spark your creativity and capture your life.

Rules:

1. Save this post! Swipe to see the prompts (save in your collections so you can refer back to the prompts easily!)
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2. Check this list every day and take a photo using the prompt as your inspiration!

3. Share your photo on Instagram using the hashtag #cherisheveryday365 and/or #cherisheveryday365_June

4. Go through the #cherisheveryday365_June hashtag to like and comment and find new friends in the community!

5. Share this post in your stories so that more people can join in!

Have fun!

AD: Check it out... My pride and joy. I MADE THAT!

AD: Check it out... My pride and joy. I MADE THAT! My hard work all wrapped up perfectly in a single photo.

Oh I'm sorry, did you think I meant Lee Lee? She's great too. But I'm talking about the SHIRT she's wearing. I used to craft all the time. I sewed Jayda's dresses when she was Lee Lee's age. And outfitted Ty with some super cute bowties.

Fast forward to Lee Lee's toddler years and I'm busier and out of crafting practice. I'll admit, it took me awhile to get this shirt just right (this is my first ever experience with vinyl cutting!) But I love how it turned out!

I don't have time for the detailed projects, but simple ones like this shirt aren't so hard to knock out on the officialCricut machine. Click on the link in my bio+ this pic to read more about this fun new machine that I can't wait to use more around the house (and yard!)! #cricutcreated

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