This is What Makes ‘Vacationing’ with Kids Worth It
This blog post is sponsored by Shell, for which I was compensated. But the story, experiences and opinions are all my own.
I’m beginning to realize that traveling and vacationing with kids are two totally different things. I enjoy both for different reasons so it’s hard comparing one over the other. But today I’m going to share a recent road trip we took with our kids, and why it most definitely was not a vacation, yet it was rewarding all the same.
With my husband’s job he works four 10-hour shifts a week, then he gets three days off. Those days off rotate every month. This can make planning for things very difficult. The positive side however, is when he has weekdays off instead of weekends; we can escape for a quick getaway and usually experience less crowds.
We’re always saying we want to go places but sitting down and planning those trips is another thing. I had just gotten through a slew of deadlines for my blog, my husband had a weekend free of trainings and overtime and I had just received my first Fuel Rewards® card in the mail and I was itching to use it.
I sat down to my computer and booked a night at a waterpark and resort between Austin and San Antonio. We’ve gone together pre-children but had never taken the kids. They aren’t thrill seekers at all (I mean, my daughter cried on the People Mover at Disney World because it was dark) but I crossed my fingers I could persuade them to try something.
We told the kids we’d be heading to the water park the next morning and staying at a hotel (they love hotels). My daughter immediately started packing. My son had more questions.
As soon as the word “ride” came out of my mouth, both of them started gasping and asking for clarifications about what kind, how fast, and “do I have to go on it?”
As we hit the road down to the resort we stopped to fill up at a Shell station. I whipped out my new Fuel Rewards card and got excited when I saw the price drop by $.15/gallon. I’m not the best a couponing but when a discount is as simple as swiping a free card I’m all about it. Sign up for the Fuel Rewards program here and start saving with Instant Gold Status. It’s free, takes less than 60 seconds, and you can have your own Fuel Rewards card mailed straight to you!
My daughter on the other hand… Not feeling so excited, but a little anxious about what was ahead. The questions kept coming.
I told them we wouldn’t decide which rides we’d be doing or not doing until we were standing in front of them.
When we made it to the park my son surprised me when he saw a huge slide and immediately said “I want to go on that one!” And pointed way up at the top.
Yea, I’ll believe it when I see it. I thought.
My daughter was all “Nope… Nope… No… Not that one either…”
She went straight to the wave pool and was in her happy place. But I was hoping we could try something new as a family, not sit in a pool like the one in our neighborhood.
I bribed, begged and pleaded. I asked a lifeguard what slow water ride she’d recommend for non-thrill-seeking kids and she said the Congo ride. Great. We had a winner. Almost.
Problem was, that ride was full of mist, eerie music, and wildly obvious pretend animals that still had my over-imaginative daughter completely freaking out.
She hysterically asked to get off when we turned a corner and she saw a black tunnel. My husband exited with her and I kept going with our son.
After a semi-steep drop he was surprisingly giggly. So we kept going further down the ride into more drops and a river of sorts. He LOVED it. And I knew my daughter would too. Or at least I thought she would.
It took me a while but I realized that what she doesn’t enjoy about rides isn’t necessarily the thrill level, but the amount of thematic creepiness. She doesn’t like tunnels, non-happy music, dark spaces (hence her freak out on the People Mover when we go through Space Mountain).
I asked another lifeguard if we could enter the Congo ride AFTER the dark tunnel and he escorted us to where the little rapids started. She was extremely hesitant at first, but finally got on.
AND SHE LOVED IT!
She continued to surprise me as she’d get on more slides and rapids much more thrilling than the last. Hooting and hollering with delight the whole way down.
“Thank you for bringing us here mommy,” my daughter said, as we walked back from a slide.
Going on trips with kids may not be a relaxing vacation by any means. But the rewards come through in other ways. From watching them conquer a fear, witnessing their joy, and hearing their gratitude. I may be even more tired when I get home, but the time spent together makes it all worth it.
I’m teaming up with Shell and the Fuel Rewards® program this year and it’s inspiring us to fuel our fun. I signed up for a Fuel Rewards® card and got “Instant Gold Status” which basically means I can save at least $.05/gallon at the pump – up to 20 gallons/visit (we saved $.15/gallon this trip!) and additional savings other places when I used the card. It’s not a credit card and doesn’t cost anything to sign up!
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I love this! Trips like this are definitely not relaxing, but you’re right. It’s the experience and the conquering of fears! My 5 year old sounds a lot like your daughter. She’s easily scared, but loves Ferris wheels and rides.
Haha, I bet they’d get along well on their easy-going rides. That’s too cute.
I’m not a parent and I’ve always thought that parents at amusement parks look (and sound) completely stressed, but sounds like you guys had fun, collectively. I have taken my nieces and nephews on some of my adventures – zip lining, horseback riding, mas during Carnival, hiking – and one did ask to turn back once (climbing up a hillside to an admittedly spooky looking fort) but I’ve found that they can also surprise themselves by conquering their fears.
That sounds SO funny to me hearing how we look from outsiders looking in. I’m pretty sure I look stressed about 80% of the time I’m with my kids. haha