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Our little family is sprightly, loves adventure and is sometimes obnoxious. But we are a family. Legally. And a little more than 50 years ago that would not have been the case.

In 2017 it’s hard to imagine our family being seen as anything but normal. But less than 50 years ago, our marriage would have been illegal in 16 states. Not just frowned upon, not just shunned… ILLEGAL.

Loving Day- A Day to celebrate interracial couples.

You didn’t realize you’d be getting a little history lesson today did you?

Chances are you may have heard of Richard and Mildred Loving–Especially since last year a movie titled Lovings hit theaters, bringing more attention to their important story.

My husband and I finally sat down to watch it last night. We’re both very familiar with their story but with Loving Day upon us, we made it a point to finally watch this movie about them.

It was hard not to cry at some parts. And shout “holy cow!” more than once. And throughout the movie we both baffled at how all of this happened a mere decades ago.

Richard and Mildred Loving

Richard and Mildred Loving: elebrating Loving Day

Short story about the Lovings… An interracial couple, white man and black woman, who fell in love and were going ot have a baby. In June of 1958, they left their home state of Virginia and got married in Washington D.C… Well, that wasn’t good enough for Virginia. Police raided the couple’s home at night when they were sleeping and the couple was charged for leaving the state to get an interracial marriage then returning to Virginia.

The trial judge wrote: “Almighty God created the races white, black, yellow, malay and red, and he placed them on separate continents. And but for the interference with his arrangement there would be no cause for such marriages. The fact that he separated the races shows that he did not intend for the races to mix.”

Years later, after being frustrated about not being allowed to travel to visit their families together in Virginia, they began to protest the law.
In 1967 the United States Supreme Court decision Loving v. Virginia struck down all anti-miscegenation laws citing “There can be no doubt that restricting the freedom to marry solely because of racial classifications violates the central meaning of the equal protection clause.”

Now, June 12th is known as Loving Day, the largest multiracial celebration in the U.S. And this is the 50th anniversary.

Loving Day

Every year, since I learned about this holiday about seven or so years I’ve taken some time to stop and reflect on my gratitude for the Lovings, and how far our country has come. I can’t imagine not being with my husband because of some misguided law, and people who thought us loving each other was wrong.

I make a point to talk about this special day with my kids each year. My daughter loves the children’s book The Case for Loving. We read it together every few months, but always on this day. She has a hard time understanding how people could have thought there was anything wrong with families that look like ours. But it’s a great conversation-starter for how some people thought (or think), and how people can change.

I try to explain how decades ago, people were afraid of people who are different than them. And how dangerous that fear can be.

Fear holds us back. Hatred, misunderstanding, and lack of empathy pushing those who love each other away from one another, instead of spending more time just loving one another.

Richard and Mildred Loving: elebrating Loving Day

Each year we make sure to take some time to talk about the past, the present, and the future. Specifically with families like ours, and other people striving to be families.

You don’t need to be in an interracial marriage to celebrate this holiday. It’s something we all can appreciate and share with our families. Looking at how far we’ve come as a people, and how we can continue to do better. I want my kids to lead with love, not hate or fear. I hope we can spread that message together.

I’m thankful for the Lovings, as well as the people who backed them up, supported them, and continue to support what they stood for.

I hope you’ll take some time to read a little more about Mildred and Richard Loving and maybe even share the story with your families. You can learn more here and find out about celebrations going on near you.

Our interracial family celebrating loving day

Happy Loving Day 2017 my friends!

Loving Day- A Day to celebrate interracial couples.

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